Tolerance is not only between people, but also between people and cats. One is the first time he became a shoveler, and the other is the first time he was tamed in his family. When getting along with each other, running-in is essential, and fighting is not the only way out. "Tolerance" is the correct education during running-in. The cats in the photos always look soft and glutinous, which makes people feel protective, but after actually taking them home, you will find that they are not able to remember when they are dismantled, messed up, bite, catch people, urinate, and even educated. However, this is what a cat does normally, and they are good at testing everything at home with curiosity, including you.
Especially for kittens 2 months to 1 year old, naughty is their nature. Play with them more to consume their physical strength, so that they will less "attack" you. But don't tease them with your hands.
In addition, their own habits and physiological characteristics will also aggravate the conflict between you. For example, if you don’t sleep in the middle of the night, you scream and jump. For example, breaking every obstacle it sees while walking. For example, chew your hands and see what it is. Therefore, before taming a cat, you must first understand the cat's habits clearly before you know whether they are playing with you or "fighting", otherwise unnecessary misunderstandings are likely to occur.
So, if a cat really makes a mistake, how should he educate him?
Overall, the difference from the dog's education method is that cats cannot use excessive education methods.
Usually, after a cat is a cat, the following situation will occur:
Cats will hold grudges, and the more they beat them, the more bears they become, the relationship between humans and cats becomes bad, the cats are unwilling to get close to their owners, the pressure on the cats increases dramatically, the tears scars become more and more hair-lossed, and the personality becomes more and more timid and cowardly, so you must use the correct "tolerant" method to treat cats who make mistakes.
1) Give cats a positive reward
"Give rewards if you do it right" is more effective than "get punished if you do it wrong", because cats like their owners' praise very much. For example, when it comes to cats urinating randomly, excessive education has made cats urinate violently. But if a cat suddenly urinates correctly, and immediately gives a snack reward, the effect will be very different.
2) Have your own fixed angry pattern
Once a cat does something wrong, you can express your anger through a fixed expression, tone, and behavior. For example, look at it seriously and say "No". If you behave badly, you can carry the back of the cat's neck and scold it severely. Every time a cat makes a mistake, the above fixed process will be repeated. In the long run, the cat will know that you are angry like this.
3) Cold treatment of cats
cats can feel human emotions. When the cat does something wrong, choose to ignore it, or leave it to go to another room, and in short, stop all interactions - not playing, not watching, and ignore it. After calming down, the cat knew that it would not play with it.
4) All education must be based on "catching the current situation".
Because cats cannot understand human words, it is not very meaningful to educate them after making mistakes, but instead makes the cat misunderstand. Only in-person education can cats realize their mistakes.
Finally, I want to mention a little more. Every time I train a cat, it is about patience and efficiency. The frustration caused by failure in cat training should not be a reason to abandon cats. After all, other people's things are also coming step by step. A cat may be just your pet, but you are all about a cat.
You will also go from the beginning to the end to the tacit understanding, which is the result of mutual efforts and tolerance. So since you have chosen, just stay with me to the end.