If you retire at the age of 65, based on the current average life of 81, you can spend about 20 years according to your own wishes! Li Weiwen, who loves life, has already started the retirement process. He adheres to the right-hand man who "plays for a lifetime" and has drawn a play blue picture in his third life, which also includes learning, letting go, and following his own steps, he is content with every moment.
On this day of visit, Li Weiwen smiled and said, "Today is my 60th birthday!" He talked about the second half of his life in a coincidence, and felt very touched. This dental doctor who has many roles in one, and has teamed up with natural ecological photographer Xu Renxiu to give birth to a wilderness protection association. At the same time, he is a family education writer and began to promote the concept of "premature planning and retirement". "Retirement" refers to a kind of progressive approach. No matter at any age, you must live in a retired mood, do a good job in financial planning, and live in old age. Only by preparing in advance can you create a better third life.
{9 "Don't have a comparative attitude!" He believed that the focus of his third life was to re-explor yourself, rather than live in the standards of others. Retirement is not the end of life, but to welcome another beautiful stage."What should I do after retirement?" is a trouble for many office workers. Li Weiwen suggests to cultivate diverse interests, or regain the love of young people, so as to avoid losing their focus and being inappropriate in life. The Japanese movie "Retreat" describes a white elite who faces various psychological changes after retirement, and the process of adaptation is often uneven, reflecting the current situation of a mature race entering the third life. The movie is very realistic. Although you are completely free after retirement and can get up, eat and sleep easily, but after spending time, you will easily cause self-doubt: What is the meaning of this day? Li Weiwen laughed and said that it is also good to have a short life, but you must keep your daily routine and feel that you live a meaningful life every day. Never mind the light without any planning.
Don't care about other people's vision and explore the heart again"Did you pass on your life?" Li Weiwen pointed out the confusion of retired people. The reversal of retired life makes people feel uneasy because after losing their role at work, they also lose their original social recognition. He explained with Adler's psychology: "Everyone has a life subject. There is no need to care about how others look at us. Be yourself and do what you like, and reshape your attitude and look at the world. The perspective of looking at the world will be different." When you enter the mature period, you should return to exploring your heart, and the third life has a lot of time to observe yourself, and once again start your joy and enthusiasm for life. This is a stage of learning the new and refreshing. After retirement, you can still do a lot of things and explore yourself in the direction you like. There are endless possibilities in the future.
People can grow old but not old. Prepare for 5 years early.Retirement is a subject that needs to be learned. Li Weiwen often shares his views. Higher elimination has become a global trend. As early as in college, he had already thought about social issues such as mature society, retirement rules, and sharing of friends. He suggested that everyone start preparing 5-10 years before retirement, so as not to know what to do if retirement is naive.
"I have seen many people become "soaked potatoes" when they retire. It's okay to let them go for a short time. If they are dispersed for a long time, they will easily lose interest in the things around them." Li Weiwen took a friend as an example and regarded "like travel" as an interest. After playing for a year and a half, his mind became empty and he didn't know how to fall into the aging process. Ages can grow old, but your mind cannot grow old. The beautiful years that you have in your life should not be wasted.
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"Buy friends well" My friend ganged up to build an elderly apartmentand lived for most of his life. He was busy working hard and couldn't appreciate the beauty of his life. After retirement, he had plenty of time to enjoy life. Li Weiwen encourages everyone that in addition to being relaxed and having a broad mind, he might as well pursue self-realization. After retirement, he is a golden period for learning again. He has the opportunity to make like-minded new friends when participating in activities. No matter what activities you participate in, there is no bad definition, only the value of rewards. Li Weiwen kept reminding himself to cherish the time of life and pursue "compassion and wisdom". Through a lot of reading, he created himself, and called his friends to volunteer and serve social services. Although his friends often laughed at him for being honest, these are the key ways to create self-value.
Retirement is just the end of your career and not the end of your life. For 20 years of retirement, in addition to wealth and health planning, you must also manage your friends well. Li Weiwen advocates that friends recruit groups to prepare for retirement. International relations are the source of rich old age. The happiest thing in the world is not to grow old with family and friends. After he was 50 years old, he and his friends formed a "Zhixing" team, gathered funds together, and built his own elderly apartment to prepare for the ideal life of the elderly. The team of the Zhe Group occasionally made a date and contacted the local charity group to play and donate. "Everything we do must have value and meaning, and life is full of positive energy at any time!" The third life said to Li Weiwen, it is a gift and another starting point for pursuing dreams.
